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Lydia c lee's avatar

Hoinestly, grief takes so many physical and mental manifestations. I think we really only talk about it being of sadness and loss but it's so much more than that. I think your husband is wise to be able to notice these shifts in an impersonal way (not taking it on as you being difficult, cranky whatever, but sommething happening TO you

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Hi Denyse, I'm not mid 70's but I can very much relate to this post. I lost Dad 7.5 years ago and now everything going on with Mum. She is in end-of-life phase now. We met with a palliative care team today. Could be weeks or months. We don't know. I am short fused, tired, exhausted, and my productivity at home has depleted. I just can't do much right now. Burnt out is something I think I have too. Like you, I've had it before. For me it was in 2012. As things progress with Mum I will hand over the linky to Sue & Deb to look after (host) for a while which thankfully they have very kindly agreed to do. You've been through a lot too - all the points you've stated here in your post plus your own health journey. What we can manage and cope with changes as we get older and also depending on what we're dealing with. We have to alter our priorities and where we put our time so that we do the best to care for ourselves and find some pockets of joy to nourish and fulfill us. Take care of you! Thanks for linking up with #WWWhimsy xo

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